Hire a Divorce Mediator when your lawyers want to keep fighting
The problem of adversarial divorce
Too often family law attorneys drive up legal fees unnecessarily by inciting more win-lose, adversarial dynamics in divorce cases – – even when the parties either want to reconcile or work out their conflict in cooperative ways. In fact, that their code of ethics: they have an ethical duty to provide zealous advocacy, to do whatever it takes to “win.” However, in family law, this sort of adversarial “winning” comes at huge costs. These include the situation of not being able to co-parent effectively; billing of massive legal fees; long-term restraining orders; social upheaval for the people the couple knows; and the preclusion of any kind of cooperation before, during, and after a divorce is settled. In addition, you lose control over the disposition of your case, and give it to judges and lawyers.
High-level mediation can solve your problem
If your divorce is totally in the ditch because of greedy, out of control, high-conflict attorneys, you may consider effective intervention by a professional mediation firm with training in game theory strategy, psychology and psychoanalysis, the finances and taxation of divorce, and a depth of mediation and negotiating techniques. A good mediation firm can troubleshoot this intractable, expensive situation, analyze solutions and remedies, and help you transform such a case into an effective, mediated, less expensive divorce. Such intervention is stressful because the attorneys will not want to give up their cases, but it is your choice and your legal right to fire them, and get your case done right.
Why BCS is the Best Choice
Negotiation is a full-service firm, and we can handle all aspects of your divorce, draft a good settlement agreement, and complete all necessary court documentation to finish your case – – quickly and efficiently. If you are such a couple that has been caught in the vice grip of adversarial and intractable dynamics, you can fix your problem by calling our firm. One of our experienced mediators will give you free, confidential consultation to show you how BCS Mediation can help you take your case out of an adversarial paradigm, and transform it into a solvable, cooperative, workable mediation, even if you no longer trust or like your spouse.